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Friday, June 17, 2005


It is only fitting that I dedicate this e-mail to everyone who is a father, knows a father, has a father or wants to be a father.  That should cover all of us. 

 

When I think of Father's Day, I used to think of my own father.  Now that I am married and have children of my own, I also think of my husband and all of the times we've shared together parenting as "Father and Mother" -- Parents in unity--both searching for answers and finding so much joy.

 

Father's Day brings to mind so many ideas of "father"--Da-Da, Daddy, Father, Pop, Old Man, Father of our Country, Father Sky, Big Daddy, Daddy-O, Father Time, Holy Father and don't for Thomas Jefferson-Father of Invention.  Maybe your father has a little bit of all of them, rolled into one nice package.

 

Growing up, I always thought my dad was the "bomb", so cool and so funny--and the source of  "stuff".  As an adult, I feel the same way but hold so much more respect for him as I parent my own children.  How patient our parents were to put up with our "childhood" and all its' phases, wouldn't you say?  No matter what kind of relationship you share with your father, he is still, Dad!

 

Father's are usually guys who get up early every day (I see it in my own husband), go to work-without complaining, bring home the bacon, cut the grass, take out the trash and kill the spiders.  The unsung heros in our lives I pay tribute to all of them with a little "Father" knowledge sharing:

 

Mother Earth, Father Sky : Native American Wisdom

 

 

We pay respects to fathers of our lives, fathers of our town and nation, fathers of ideals and ideas, and in the realm of nature people have spoken of  "Sun Father," but the grandest of them all is "Father Sky."

Most of us are probably aware that Native Americans pay reverent respects to Father Sky, but they are not alone in this tradition. The ancient Greeks referred to Father Sky as the second of the gods to emerge out of chaos. First came Gaea, deep-breasted Mother Earth, then Uranus, Father Sky.  From the union of this pair came all the gods of Mount Olympus, and eventually people. If we think about it, it is easy to see what lies behind these concepts. All of the materials of our bodies and our lives come from the earth which nourishes us from birth to death, and moisture and light come from the sky to energize the children of Mother Earth.

None-the-less, the idea of referring to Earth as "Mother" and sky as "Father" seems primitive to some people. It is primitive in the sense of going far back in time, but it is not without complex inspiration and insight. 

   Old Father Time                                         

Chronos (also known as Chronus) is the personification of time itself.  Indeed, the word means "time" and is the root of "chronology" and other modern words. It was, however, originally employed in a purely poetic sense.  There is no God or Goddess directly associated with time per se in the annals of Greek mythology, but there may have been a Titan of Time.

Saturn (referred to by the Greeks as Cronus or Kronos) was the Roman Deity of Time and an ancient Italian Corn God known as the Sower.

Male ruler of the Roman Gods prior to Jupiter, Saturn's weapon was a scythe or sickle. The Romans honored Saturn at a MidWinter festival called Saturnalia, which lasted several days and at which there was much feasting and making merry.

His functions were concerned with agriculture and his festival, held in Attica and known as Kronia, resembled the Roman Saturnalia in that it was a celebration of the harvest.  In art, Saturn has always been depicted as a old man holding an implement which has often been interpreted as a harpe or curved sword, but which appears likely to have actually represented a scythe or a sickle. (Source: www.Novareinna.com)

George Washington was a Federalist and the 1st President of the United States, born February 22, 1732 (Some historians note that Washington was actually born on February 11th.When the British Parliament replaced the Julian calendar with the Gregorian calendar in 1752, his birth date moved to February 22).

Birthplace: Westmoreland County, Virginia

Education: No formal education

Married: Martha Dandridge Custis, 1759

Age at First Inuguration: 57

Previous Occupations: Surveyor, soldier, planter

Died: December 14, 1799; age 67

Place of Burial: Mount Vernon, VA  (Source: www.Jeannepasero.com)

This Father's Day you may think of neckties and b-b-q's or fishing with pop.  I think of Dave the painter, Larry the fisherman, Lee the golfer and Tom the love of my life-- forever in my heart.

 

"My daddy wears his supersuit and is cool."    Logan Aldrich, 2

"My daddy is funny and good at basketball."   Ryan Aldrich, 7 

"My daddy loves chocolate cake, like me."

 

Enjoy the Day,

Beth Aldrich

 

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